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femboy

/ˈfɛm.bɔɪ/

A boy expressing traditionally feminine style or mannerisms

From Modern English, from feminine fem- (Feminine or woman-associated) + English, ultimately Germanic; deeper origin disputed boy (Young male person).

noun
adjective
fem-
Modern English slang, 1936
fem
Slang noun meaning “woman”; shortened from female.
Modern English
feminine
The adjective meaning “having traditionally female qualities”; source of the clipped form fem-.
boy
Proto-Indo-European
*bʰā-, *bʰāt-
“Father, elder brother, brother”; proposed ancestor in the supplied chain.
Proto-Germanic
*bō-
“Brother, close male relation.”
Proto-West Germanic
*bōjō
“Younger brother, young male relation.”
Old English
*bōia
Recorded as a personal name and reconstructed ancestor of Middle English boy.
Middle English
boy / boye
“Servant, commoner, knave,” later also “boy” and “male child.”
Combined
fem- + boy → femboy
A modern English compound combining a clipped form of feminine with boy.
Modern English Internet slang
femboy
A young male person presenting traditionally feminine clothing, appearance, or mannerisms; not inherently a gender identity or sexual orientation.
Modern English
femboy

Picture the word femboy as a linguistic mash-up assembled from two very different histories: fem-, a clipped modern form of feminine, and boy, an old English word that began life closer to “servant,” “knave,” or “young fellow” than to a nursery-room label. The boy half has an especially crooked family tree: one theory connects it to Germanic words for a younger brother, while another links it—through Old French—to a fetter or leg iron; etymologists are not pretending the evidence is tidier than it is. By the fourteenth century, English boy could mean a male child, but it also carried rougher associations such as “rascal” or “urchin,” and around 1600 it was used in colonial contexts for male slaves and servants, a history that still makes the word socially sensitive in some settings. The modern compound became prominent in Internet culture, where it usually describes a boy or young man wearing feminine clothing, makeup, jewelry, or adopting feminine mannerisms, without automatically implying that he is transgender or has any particular sexual orientation. In other words, femboy is not a synonym for trans girl: its two halves describe a feminine presentation and a male identity, though people may use the term differently for themselves. Remember the image: a very old, quarrelsome word for “boy” wearing the freshly clipped jacket of feminine—a medieval servant word turned into a digital-age style label.

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